5 Signs of a Toxic Relationship

Dealing with toxic partners can grind you down so much you lose your sense of self.

And they are masters at making you think you are crazy for wanting what can be expected in a normal healthy relationship.

Don’t believe the hype.

5 signs (there are more than 5) of a toxic relationship.

You do all the giving.

They do all the taking.

A healthy relationship is mutually beneficial. If you are constantly giving your all and getting nothing in return, time to re-evaluate.

Note that the courtship phase is different from the actual relationship phase. Often toxic people are amazing during courtship, to get you hooked. Once you are, their real self emerges.

Gaslight central. They lie, make you sound crazy, deny, project, all sorts of theatrics to avoid taking ownership and being held accountable.

Sweetheart, it’s not you. It’s them.

Trust yourself.

And by the way, stop looking for closure. They can’t or won’t give it to you. Give yourself the gift of closure by trusting yourself and reclaiming your power.

They downplay how much they have hurt you and make it out as if they are your personal savior.

That’s the lens of their delusion.

“Shine your eye!”

Again, trust yourself.

Don’t feed into their lies.

Note that if you have been dealing with this for a while, it will have eroded your sense of self so don’t beat yourself up. Start by returning your focus and attention to yourself. Disengage emotionally and focus on your own work & restore and reclaim your womanhood and watch your life change.

You feel as if you are going crazy whenever you are around them. You feel stressed, confused, unsure around them.

Stop trying to rationalize, justify or even diagnose it.

Detach.

Leave.

Or at the very least put on some soul PPE Protection for your person and emotions. Treat them like they have emotional Ebola.

They never admit when they are wrong and if they do, somehow they still make it your fault. Again, narcissistic shenanigans.

“I’m sorry but you shouldn’t have triggered me”. That delusional lens again. Often they choose women who have a growth mindset anyway, so you are often looking to improve, but please don’t confuse doing your work with doing their work.

Taking accountability for them only enables more toxic behavior.

Bottom line, you can’t change people, but you can change yourself, you can change positions, you can change your perspective.

Take back your power.

Do your inner work. Get grounded in yourself and in God.

Do your work. This will give you strength and clarity to take your next steps.

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