Attracting The Right Partner
I deeply want a husband... I understand this desire.
Marriage when it’s good, is amazing. But marriage to the wrong man...can derail your life. I wish this was being taught in my day. So many women have struggled in marriage and if not for grace...so let me share my learnings with you in this area.
Women leading with masculine in dating become hunters. Even if they don’t do the initial asking out. They are constantly looking for “him”. Every man who says hello is reviewed as a prospect. And handled accordingly.
Here’s the challenge. Most such women are attracted to masculine men. Alphas who lead with masculine.
Masculine energy repels masculine men. But there are more reasons to lead with your feminine here.
Masculine energy narrows your focus and that can cause you to ignore critical warning signs as you focus on him being husband material.
You become more likely to put yourself in compromising situations because you are focused on the goal.
Leading with masculine can cause your womanhood to be devalued in the other person’s eyes.
What to do instead. Lead with your feminine.
Here’s how-
1. Know that you are loved completely and infinitely by God. Turn inward. Work on self discovery, self love, purpose. Why are you here? If you don’t know why you are here, how will you know who the right partner for you is?
2. Discover your iconic factors and your unique feminine flow. Get clarity about your desire but don’t get attached to it, i.e it must happen this year.
3. Be open to the possibilities around you by paying attention. Enjoy the process by appreciating the diversity of men you come into contact with. So often women laser focus onto a type and then you miss the gem that is trying to get your attention.
4. Allow things to happen. Don’t force it. But if it’s not moving, feel free to move. Allowing doesn’t mean passive and weak. It means being open and receptive but being clear about your value and what you won’t accept. So if it starts to feel devaluing...gather your purse and go.
5. Relax into your womanhood. Start being more vs doing more.
6. Insert more pleasure into your life! Have more fun. Live a life you love.
7. Become more vibrant! (Health as well), passionate and purposeful and iconic.
I went even deeper in the Complete Womanhood Course currently on SALE.
With my extensive training in leadership coaching, social and emotional intelligence and healthcare, with my years of learning about women and feminine energy, and with my spiritual gifts and calling, I will teach you and give you the understanding, the steps, exercises, and more to release you from what has been holding you back and help you reclaim your womanhood and return to your original design! So you can be the woman you were born to be.